This is my personal blog. I use it to talk about things going on in my life, vent my frustrations, and anything else I feel like talking about. I know this blog is public and anyone can read it so I am very careful not to talk about anything that I don't want the whole world to know about. I'm not stupid, I promise!!
Last night, my husband and I were talking about privacy on Facebook and he made the comment that it didn't matter because I put all of my personal shit on all of my blogs anyway. He also said that he has all kinds of people telling him about things they read on my blogs and that he doesn't want his personal life all over the internet. He then mentioned that all anyone has to do is google my name and my blogs pop up. No shit... I know that, I've googled myself! lol I don't mention my husband's name in my posts and the only people who would know who he is are people who know us in person. I also don't put things that I think are TOO personal. I am sometimes vague about things for a reason.
The more I started thinking about this, the more it started pissing me off. That means that someone is lurking around my blogs and running back to my husband to tell him what I said. I have nothing to hide on my blogs but it's the fact that someone is doing that shit. I'm sure it is most likely this blog because I've never mentioned my husband on my other blogs except for a recent post on my Rants in My Pants blog where I wrote about him being addicted to texting (and that shit is true whether he wants to believe it or not!).
You know, my twins are in 1st grade. My daughter had to change her behavior card at school for tattling to the teacher. Do you need to change your behavior card, too? Or maybe stand in the corner? Seriously, aren't we adults? I graduated from school years ago and left that immature bullshit behind. Why is it that people just love to put their nose in other people's business? Why do people enjoy starting drama? I mean, if he was really mad about the things I write on here, he would have said something a long time ago. I don't know WHO is running back and telling him what I write about, whether it's a relative or a friend or what but seriously, grow the fuck up!! I have a pretty boring life right now but I can find better things to do than to go tattle to other people in the hopes of causing some sort of drama or argument. Until your are PERFECT, stop tattling on other people. That is exactly what I tell my children and I guess it goes for adults, too! Of course, my husband could have just said that because in reality HE is the one lurking around and reading my blogs so if that's what it is *waves* hi!! I see you!!!
Just a few days before I found out all of this, I also found out that another so-called friend of mine broke a promise. I told her something in confidence a few months ago and asked her NOT to tell a specific person. Guess what? That specific person asked me about it the other day because this "friend" ran her mouth even though she promised it was just between her and I. So there goes another friend down the drain because once I've lost trust in you, you are nothing to me.
People just piss me off. I think I'm better off being a hermit and keeping to myself. At least I know that I won't try to cause drama or stab myself in the back! I hate two faced people, liars, and drama queens. Fuck off!